Inner Strength

What I love about my girlfriend is her very positive inner strength, her high self esteem, common sense and smart. She just got her degree in Medical Billing and Coding with an online college and had perfect attendance and a 4.0 in her grades.  She is so positive with her life no matter how bad it gets. She is one of the strongest women I have ever met or been with.

I know that there are BBW's out there that have low self esteem or feel negative about themselves for various reasons. You need to focus on yourself and those who love and care about you. You need to care about yourself, love yourself and try your best not to let negative comments affect you.

I know it is easier said than done. Trying to deal with all the negative and frustrations in life you need to get above it the best you can and prove to all those trying to put you down that you are better than them. I was put down and controlled by someone and allowed it to happen from 2005 to 2010. It took a couple of years to be normal again.

I made a promise to myself to never allow that to happen to me again and when I met my girlfriend, I knew it would never happen again. She always says what is on her mind whether it hurts or not. She does not lie and always truthful. What a change from who I use to be with and it is very refreshing to know that women like my girlfriend actually exist and are real.

This a painting of my girlfriend done by Les Toil who does BBW as Pinup Girls.

Here is Les Toil's website

Why Did I Start BBW Friendly

When I started the website in November 1997, I really had no idea what it was going to be.  I knew I wanted it to link to the BBW Friendly chat channel on Webmaster IRC.  I also wanted to make it a dating website but that all changed in 2000.  I officially took over the website and I was tired of the chat channel and it being a dating website.  I decided to change it to a informatioin website.  There were several other websites that had information and were larger but mine was not going to have links to any adult or porn sites.

I tried to be careful with the sites I link to BBW Friendly and I had to constantly monitor because a lot of the sites I was linked to were slowly disappearing.  I got tired of constanly monitoring who I was linked to and let the site go.  In 2003 I changed the background and tried to keep it more current and had banners made and an award made.  Giving award to websites was popular back then just like web rings were.

I let it go after awhile again I just check the links once in a great while.  The website pages were busy and boring but I did not have the desire to change it and just let it go.  This year and month I decided it was time for a change.  As you can see the changes now and I finally was able to change the picture on the BBW Friendly Dating website (www.bbwfriendlydating.com).

I hope you like the changes and if you have any suggestions just let me know and see if it is possible and meets my qualifications to be linked or added to the website.